Have you noticed there’s a stigma that comes with being an introvert? Personally, I was born an introvert and was socialized to be more extroverted. What I’ve noticed is that our culture has celebrated extroverts and viewed there being something not quite enough about a person who is introverted – up until now.
It seems being introverted implies that one does not require social interaction, and we are happy leading insulated lives with less communication with others. The truth, however, is that introverts – like me – crave human company just like anybody.
We may just need it in smaller doses and in a different way compared to extroverts. As we previously pointed out here on May You Shine, everyone needs a balance of love, peace, and joy each day. Once a person finds fulfillment in work and other pursuits, he/she needs to reach out to others to strike that proper balance.
Extroverts typically go out and meet a big group of friends.
Introverts, meanwhile, often prefer more controlled conditions. We might hang out with one or two friends or communicate with online communities that belong to specific subcultures.
There are subcultures that have grown bigger thanks to social media. ABC News mentions some online subcultures that are currently thriving, including Otherkin and Fanfiction. Check this out and see if you relate.
Otherkin
The Otherkin believe themselves to be “other than human.” Whether vampires, elves, fairies, unicorns, or some other otherworldly beings, they all fall under this subculture. They have actually been around since 1972 and are only coming to prominence now because they have social media tools at their disposal. They take advantage of platforms such as Tumblr to socialize with each other.
Fanfiction followers
The Fanfic subculture has also been around long before the rise of the Internet. The Bronte sisters, for instance, were already writing these stories back in the nineteenth century. Online forums have provided fanfic writers today with an outlet to share stories about their favorite fictional characters. These usually involve characters in plots that indulge the writer’s fantasies – paths that these characters would never take in either the books or the movies. The fun of writing these fanfic stories is building the readership base.
Fandom
Fandom is a subculture distinct from Fanfic as it is comprised of people who enjoy pop culture topics. The social media platforms Tumblr and Reddit help fans get together online to talk about a certain subject, whether a movie, TV show, book, etc. From the lingo to private jokes these groups exchange, these virtual relationships can be as tight as actual friendships.
Fitness enthusiasts
Of course, some subcultures are also formed on the basis of lifestyle. The Insider notes that there are many health and fitness groups formed on Instagram where people highlight how they stay fit. They post photos of their diet and share exercise routines. It’s a way to get encouragement from followers while also inspiring them with their own fitness goals.
Bingo players
Another subculture that was spurred by a lifestyle, the bingo community also has a considerable online presence today. The BBC notes that online bingo has expanded thanks to built-in chat rooms where players can make new friends.
There are also platforms that share inspiring stories from players that play the beloved pastime. Foxy Winners details some of the major prize hauls as a means to build a community bond. Knowing there are players who achieved their dreams through life-changing sums of money creates an impression that bingo is more than just a game: It’s a way of life, and there are good days as well as bad days.
All in all, this feeling of solidarity in subcultures gives members the social connection we need.
Introverts may have their comfort zones and yet at the end of the day, it’s still a necessity to belong somewhere, even if it’s in a virtual space.
Do Tell. Can you relate? Are you part of any of these subcultures? Do you consider yourself an introvert? Do you find yourself socializing more online? Do tell.
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